What is a strap-on dildo and what is it used for?
The strap-on dildo is a sex toy consisting of a dildo attached to a belt or fastening system, allowing you to enjoy penetration, while keeping your hands free.
Its use opens up a wide range of possibilities. It can be used for vaginal or anal penetration, for the practice of pegging (known as pegging in French), when a woman penetrates a man, or to enhance play between same-sex partners. Some models, such as the hollow strap-on dildo are specially designed to address certain situations, including erectile dysfunction, while others make possible double penetration.
The strap-on dildo is for all couples, regardless of origin or sexual orientation, and is part of a a free and evolving vision of sexuality. It encourages the exploration of new roles, experimentation with different scenarios and a stronger connection between partners.
Strap-on-Me stands out for its harness-free models, which have profoundly transformed traditional use and disrupted the conventions of strap-on. More intuitive, more comfortable and more natural, they offer a different experience from classic products with straps.
The different types of strap-on dildos
The Strap-on-Me selection is available in several types of models, designed to suit every level of experience, from curious beginners the most discerning users.
The classic strap-on dildo (non-vibrating)
The classic Bendable strap-on embodies the very essence of harness-free strap-on dildo. Made from silicone, it offers a soft texture and a perfectly non-porous surface, ensuring comfort and hygiene.
Its distinctive feature lies in its shape-memory technology, which adapts to the anatomy of the wearer. This flexibility improves stability and promotes simultaneous stimulation of the G-spot and clitoris, making the experience particularly immersive and pleasurable.
Available in several sizes (S, M, L, XL), with different lengths and diameters, this model allows for natural progression. It is an excellent choice for users wishing to become familiar with this type of practice while enjoying a reliable, high-end product.
This pleasure accessory stood out at the Red Dot Design Award 2019 of which it was the winner.
The vibrating, remote-controlled strap-on dildo
The Strap-on-Me vibrating strap-on dildo embodies the most advanced evolution of the strap-on, combining technology, precision and shared pleasure. Equipped with 3 independent motors, it offers simultaneous stimulation of the G-spot for the wearer, the clitoris and the P-spot (or G-spot) of their partner, creating an immersive and perfectly synchronised experience.
Each motor can be activated separately, offering total control over intensity and sensations. The dildo offers 3 vibration modes combined with 3 intensity levels, giving 9 possible combinations—more than enough to reach orgasm!
The included wireless remote control further enhances this dynamic, allowing your partner to take control of your pleasure from a distance. This interaction adds a playful dimension and strengthens the connection, by playing with roles and building desire.
The design also incorporates position memory, ensuring optimal adjustment and comfortable support throughout use, even when things heat up...
The iconic model Multi-Orgasm, a true best-seller from the brand, takes this technology even further thanks to its 3 independently controllable motors, designed to offer an exceptional level of customisation. This flagship product in the Strap-on-Me range was created to take stimulation to its peak, expand possibilities and transform every experience into a moment of total ecstasy.
Take part in the experience with our remote-controlled sex toy, a must-have in our range.
The semi-realistic strap-on dildo
The semi-realistic Semi-Real Bendable model is aimed at those seeking a more natural look. Its texture recreates the appearance of skin, with a detailed glans and a soft surface for sensations close to the real thing.
This dildo, available in several sizes and colours, retains the technical advantages of Strap-on-Me, including the harness-free design and bendable technology. It thus combines realism and comfort, while ensuring excellent stability during use.
With or without a harness: which fastening system should you choose?
The fastening system of a strap-on dildo plays an essential role in the quality of the experience and comfort of use. At Strap-on-Me, each model has been designed to offer maximum possibilities, for use without a harness or with a harness, according to each user’s preferences and expectations.
Harness-free models, “strapless”, consist of a insertable part in the vagina, which acts as a natural anchor point. This innovative design, a Strap-on-Me signature, eliminates straps and simplifies fitting. It promotes a more intimate sensation, a better connection with your partner and enhanced stimulation, particularly of the G-spot.
Models with a harness, meanwhile, remain a popular alternative for their enhanced support. They contribute to more dynamic strap-on use while offering excellent control of movement. Strap-on-Me offers a beautiful collection of lingerie harness designed to combine aesthetics and performance. The models Heroine, Diva, Rebel and Fabulous stand out for their glamorous design, meticulous finishes and comfort. Available in fabric or leather depending on the model, they are fully adjustable and compatible with all the brand’s dildos and strap-on dildos.
This dual compatibility is a real advantage: the same product can be used without a harness for a more natural experience or with a harness for more structured support, depending on the context and desires in the bedroom.
On the sex-toy market, there are also other types of fastening systems. Harnesses made of jockstrap style offer sporty support, panty models prioritise discretion and comfort, while the systems Vac-U-Lock rely on a specific fastening mechanism to keep the dildo in place.
To complete your equipment and expand your personal collection, discover our silicone dildos compatible with harnesses.
How do you choose the right strap-on dildo?
Choosing a strap-on dildo depends on several essential criteria. Size is often the first element to consider. For a first experience, it is advisable to choose a model with a moderate diameter and suitable length, in order to facilitate insertion and ensure the partner’s comfort.
The material is also decisive. The silicone used by Strap-on-Me guarantees a soft, hygienic and durable surface. It is a benchmark material in the world of high-end sex toys.
Shape and texture directly influence sensations. A smooth model will encourage a gradual approach, while a semi-realistic model will bring greater realism.
Features play a key role. Some will prefer a classic model to focus on movement, while others will opt for a vibrating strap-on dildo to intensify stimulation. Adding a remote control can also enrich the experience and offer new sensations.
Compatibility with intimate gel is a point not to be overlooked. Silicone strap-on dildos should always be used with a water-based intimate gel to preserve the quality of their surface and ensure optimal use. Strap-on-Me also offers intimate gels specially designed to accompany its products, such as Creamy, perfectly suited to this type of sex toy.
Beyond the technical aspects, the most important criterion remains communication. This type of practice is based on listening, trust and mutual respect. Taking the time to talk with your partner makes it possible to adapt the product choice, explore best practices and build a mutually fulfilling experience.
How to use a strap-on dildo: our practical advice
Theuse of a strap-on dildo relies above all on communication and trust between partners. Before anything else, it is important to discuss desires, boundaries and expectations.
Then comes the preparation, an essential step. The sex toy should be cleaned and a water-based intimate gel applied to facilitate insertion and preserve its delicate surface.
Fitting a strap-on dildo depends on the type of model selected. A harness-free strap-on is inserted directly: simply position the vaginal egg and adjust its position. A model with a harness requires precise adjustment of the straps. In all cases, it is recommended to start gradually with foreplay to prepare your body and that of your partner, taking the time to listen to feelings and sensations.
As experience grows, different positions (missionary, doggy style, cowgirl, spooning) can be explored to vary pleasures and discover what each couple enjoys. After use, a careful cleaning with mild soap or a special sex-toy cleaner helps ensure the product’s longevity.
The good news is that the strap-on is waterproof (IPX7), making for easy cleaning and thrilling water play!
